Tuesday, May 13, 2014

Beautiful Kota Kinabalu - Day 2

Okay.. 拖了那么久以后.. 我终于决定继续写下我的亚庇之旅.. 所以现在就来到了第二天啦.. 第二天.. 星期天.. 表示着今天将会有一个星期一次著名的Gaya Street的早上市集.. 对我而言.. 这个Gaya Street市集就像是一个杂八郎的巴刹.. 在这里你可以看到各式各样的玩意儿.. 从吃的.. 喝的.. 玩的.. 纪念品.. 甚至宠物(猫猫狗狗)都可以在这里看到有人售卖.. 虽然我个人不是很喜欢在当街这样售卖宠物.. 但他们也是为生活而做.. 除此之外.. 还有这里还有各式各样来自中国和菲律宾的东西售卖.. 其中一样就是我上回在菲律宾看到的Belut.. 但我到现在还是不敢恭维.. 不知道Belut是神马? 去问Google老师.. 哈哈.. 

Okay.. after so long long long delay on my KK trip post.. here comes the post for the day 2.. hehe.. day 2, Sunday.. which mean the only day for the famous Gaya Street! The Gaya Street Market opened only on every Sunday.. which is located in Gaya Street.. omg.. what am I talking.. obviously.. haha.. for me.. it is like a morning market which selling varieties of foods, fruits, souvenir, pets, cloths and things from China and Philippines.. mentioned about Philippines foods, for sure the "famous" belut is sold here also.. despite this is the second time I encounter with this thing.. (the fist time is in Philippine) but I still don'e dare to give a try.. or more precisely, don't feel like try it at all.. haha.. Not sure about what belut is? Go and consult Mr Google.. lolx.. 

所以呢.. 一大清早8点我就起床了(其实8点在这里算蛮迟了的.. 因为这里的日出大概是在6点多.. 所以8点多时已经是很亮了的).. 梳洗一番后便往目的地出发.. 往早餐出发!! 哈哈.. 所以接下来就让照片代替文字说故事吧..

So waking up in early in the morning.. around 8am.. (8am is consider quite late in Sabah as their sunrise is at 6 something.. so it is freaking bright during 8 something in the morning), headed to Gaya Street for my breakfast hunting.. hehe.. so lets the photos tell the story..

建国纪念碑.. 就在Jalan Gaya前.. i guess the English translate should be Malaysia Monument? haha.. which is located just in front of Jalan Gaya..


让我蛮惊讶的是.. 这里摆档的多数都是友族.. 加上这条路叫Gaya街.. 顾名思义就应该是很多Gaya同胞吧.. 但入口处却是两个大大写着华文的牌匾.. 国泰民安.. 政通人和.. what surprise me is when I reached at the entrance of Gaya Street, these 2 plaque was hang here.. despite majority of the hawkers here are non-Chinese, and the name is Gaya Street so I should expect some Gaya Culture things? haha..

叮咚叮咚.. 这节奏就像之前我在沙捞越时听到的.. Ding dong ding dong.. this sounds almost the same with the one I heard in Sarawak.. haha..

市集的另一角落.. 就这样摆起了地摊.. another side of the market.. with the setup of the stall is just simply a few basket and newspaper beside the road..

进去其中一家咖啡店吃早餐.. 这里的食物并不便宜.. 一包kosong椰浆饭.. 一杯Milo kosong.. 和1 set烤面包就要价6令吉.. 大概是KL的价钱了.. 但这张照片要带出的是这里马来同胞并不避忌在华人咖啡店吃东西, 顺道一提.. 这里有卖包点.. 是有猪肉的.. 这情况就和我在沙捞越时看到的一样.. 这大概就是真正的1 Malaysia.. 不像在这里一个阿"la"字眼也可以引起很大的风波..
went into a traditional coffee shop for my dinner.. foods here is not really cheap as what I think earlier.. a pack of nasi lemak kosong, a cup of Milo Kosong and a set of roasted bread cost me around RM6.. the price here is almost the same with KL price.. which the local also doesn't really sure why this happened.. lolx.. but the things I wish to bring out from this photo is not about the price.. but it is about culture.. as you can see.. the Malay friends does not uncomfortable with having meal in Chinese shop.. furthermore the shop do sell Chinese Dim Sum which contain pork.. it is just exactly same with what I saw in Sarawak last time.. I guess this the really 1 Malaysia.. unlike in peninsular.. one "Ah La" word also can caused so many issues..

填饱肚子后就是继续往下一个目的地出发的时间了! 所以呢.. 就像前一天计划好了的那样.. 打了通电话给出租车服务.. 去了车.. 打了油.. 就是时候出发了!! 目的地 - Kundasang.. 由于在Facebook有check in在亚庇.. 出发前收到一个中学同学的FB信息.. 原来他和朋友也在亚庇.. 而且也将在今天前往Kundasang.. 一切真是巧合得不可思议.. 因为我们最少已经6年不见了.. 没想到下一次见面竟然是在离我们家乡超过3,000公里的亚庇.. 呵呵.. 于是和他确认了他们的位置后.. 便带着期待的心情出发啦! 由于他们是请司机载送至Kundasang所以在Kundasang并没有交通.. 这时我租的Viva就扮演着很重要的角色了..

After having my breakfast.. it is time to move on to my next destination.. Kundasang! so.. as planned the day before.. contact the car rental service, collect my rented car.. pump petrol.. and I am on my way to Kundasang!! so let me introduce my companion for the day.. Perodua Viva!! this is the my very first time driving in Sabah! haha.. while on my way when my secondary schoolmate contacted me via Facebook.. it appears that he is in Kundasang too!! what an coincident!!  we have not meet each other for at least 6 years already and now we are meeting again in approximately 3,000km away from our hometown.. haha.. so after confirm the location with him I am going to his place to pick them up, as they travelled there by van charter service.

这就是我当时的地图兼导游.. 哈哈.. so this is how I travel in Kota Kinabalu.. haha..

去Kundasang的路途还蛮弯曲的.. 比在半岛去金马伦的路还要的难驾.. 加上我驾着一辆自己都不是很熟悉的车.. 一路上又是雾蒙蒙的.. 还下起了毛毛雨.. 令我的旅途难上加难呀.. The road condition to Kundasang is more challenging than going Cameron Highland.. especially with a car I do not really familiar with.. what make the trip worse is the road is very foggy and it is drizzling on the way to Kundasang..

在大概2个小时后的车程后.. 我终于到达了Kundasang.. 和我朋友会合后.. 便讨论下一个目的地要去那里.. 讨论一番后决定去这里一个有名的农场.. Desa Cattle Farm.. 便继续往目的地出发.. 一路上我们终于见识到什么叫做小镇了.. 这个叫Kundasang的小镇.. 真的是小镇.. "市区"只有那两排店屋.. 唯一能看到的餐厅就是KFC.. KFC真的是无处不在呀.. 说到Kundasang.. Kundasang是神山山脚.. 所以登山客多数都是会在Kundasang集合过夜.. 隔天一大早前往Kinabalu Park开始登山.. 所以这里除了登山客之外真的没有什么东西特别值得来的地方.. 能想到只有这个Desa Cattle Farm了..

一路上又是弯曲的路.. 而且去Desa Cattle Farm的路是我驾过最斜的路.. 其中有一段路简直是大概45度倾斜.. 可怜了这辆Viva 1.0.. 哈哈.. 但很庆幸它做到了! 几经辛苦我们终于到达目的地了..

入口处.. the entrance..

云看起来好像触手可及.. 这里在大概海拔2,000米高.. 比金马伦还要高.. the clouds looks like reachable with bare hand.. here it is approximately 2,000 meter above the sea level.. even higher than Cameron Highland..

有没有来到纽西兰的feels?? 哈哈.. 空气真的很清新.. (但不要靠近牛群.. 不然清新空气会充满牛屎味) Do you felt like coming over to New Zealand?? hahaha.. the air is really fresh here.. but do not go near the cows.. otherwise your fresh air will be filled by shit smell.. hehe..

参观工厂后就到了填饱肚子的时候了.. 喝了当地生产的牛奶.. 加上不是很脆的wafer.. 就这样解决了我们的午餐 + 下午"奶".. after the factoring tour.. it is time to fill our stomach.. drink locally produced milk.. and wafer which not crispy at all.. here goes our lunch and "milk" time..

当天还蛮多人来这里的.. 看到Kancil了吗? 若Kancil都能上来.. Viva有什么借口上不来呢? 哈哈.. 但我还是建议若真的多人要来的话拿cc比较大比较有力的车.. 驾驶顺畅也比较安全的多.. quite a number of people here that day.. do you spot the Kancil? If Kancil could made it here.. what excuse could Viva give for not able to reach? haha.. but personally I would still recommend if you are in a gang it is better for you to rent a more powerful car with bigger cc.. for more comfort and safer drive..

工厂外观.. look of the factory..

大概下午4点多就开始起雾了.. 开始一片雾蒙蒙了.. it started to get foggy even it is just somewhere around 4pm..

离开前近距离看下牛大姐.. some close distance photos before we left.. 

做么你看起来那么犹豫? why you look so gloomy?

呃.. 你额头上的那是屎吗? =.= err.. is that shit on your forehead?

每一只在耳朵边都有标记.. there is tagging in the ear for every cow..

附上一张刚到达时拍的全景照.. a panorama once we reached..

天色也渐渐暗了.. 我们离开啦.. 由于因为朋友他们觉得现在住宿的位置并不是很理想.. 交通很不方便.. 想要从新安排从神山下来后的住宿.. 回程时便绕到Kinabalu Pine Resort那里询问价钱.. 顺便还拍了点照..

so it started to getting dark.. and we are think it is better for us to leave that place.. due to my friends think that the location for their current accommodation was not really ideal as it is located quite far from any mean of transportation, they decided to survey again for accommodation after their hiking.. so we visited Kinabalu Pine Resort to enquire about the price.. and shoot some photos also..

这里是Kundasang最好最贵的住宿了.. 据说早上时能看到神山.. this is the most expansive accommodation available in Kundasang.. heard from the staff the Mount KK is visible in the morning..








这过后就没有照片了.. 因为我差点就回不来了.. 好吧.. 我承认我也有错.. 因为我并没有察觉到那辆德士正来着.. 当时很大雾.. 那德士并没有开灯.. 而且还驾驶的非常的快.. 加上我们并不是很清楚旅馆的位置.. 难得看到后我看了一眼没有车便转弯进去旅馆.. 谁知道半路就杀出一辆飞得西北快的德士.. 谢天谢地在这千钧一发的时候我踩的是油门而不是刹车器.. 就这样有惊无险的进了旅馆.. 你可以想象到的.. 当时充满那辆德士紧急刹车和车笛声.. 真的是把我三魂七魄吓得只剩下一魂半魄了.. 当天我不敢再驾车了.. 哈哈..

there is no photos for the day after this.. as I am freaking scared by a rude taxi!! ok.. part of it is my fault also as I did not notice it's coming as it is very foggy and the taxi did not on the head lamp.. and it is driving god damn fast in a slope plus we were not familiar with the location of the inn!! We were almost bang by him from side as I made my turn into the junction.. and thanks god.. I press the accelerator so hard and we made into the turn before he reached us with an emergency break.. my brain was totally malfunction after that and dare not to drive anymore for that day..

所以呢.. 接下来的晚上都是聊天度过时间的.. 毕竟我们最少6年不见了.. 哈哈.. 从最近的生活.. 读书方面.. 和很多很多以前的在学校的记忆.. 我们几乎无所不谈.. 使到我突然很怀念以前读书的时光.. 哈哈.. 至于我们的晚餐呢.. 由于刚才回来的路途上我们并没有看到什么吃的地方.. 加上被那德士吓一下.. 杯面是最好的晚餐了.. 哈哈.. 对了.. 我有提到我今晚的住宿吗? 哈哈.. 是的.. 很厉害的我就这样在他们那里留宿了一晚.. 而且我朋友还特地加了一张地铺给他自己.. 把床位留了给我.. 而且并不要收我一分一毫.. 他们说因为若不是我.. 没有交通他们可能会一整天在这里发呆.. 所以住宿就让他们包吧.. 是感动的咯.. 呵呵.. 但其实若不是他们.. 在我到达这里发现这里是那么的"宁静"后我当天应该会回亚庇过夜吧.. 呵呵.. 真的是不可思议啊..

so me and my long lost friend has a long chit chat during the night.. as we have not met each other for at least 6 years! haha.. we talked about current life.. study.. and lots of stories happened during our secondary time.. made me miss my school life so damn much.. haha.. have maggie cup mee as dinner for the night.. as there is no other option and we do not see any restaurant open just now during on the way back.. plus i was freaked out by the taxi.. so.. Maggie cup mee is the best solution for the night. Do I mentioned about my accommodation for the night? haha.. yes i stayed with them.. and my friends actually purposely added another mattress for him and let the bed to me.. at no charge to me as they are grateful for me to bring them around Kundasang.. otherwise they will be bored whole day in the inn as they do not have any mean of transportation.. so touching and thankful.. but if it is not them.. I can almost guarantee that i will be back to Kota Kinabalu town on that day after i found out how "peaceful" is this small town.. haha.. sometimes things really happened unexpectedly..

在大约只有17度的夜晚里吃着泡杯面感觉真的还蛮不错的.. 又再聊了一下后便入睡了.. 毕竟明天他们要早起准备登山.. 冷冷的夜晚不禁让我想起了你.. 当时还真的被你吓到了.. 以为要送你下山去看医生.. 呵呵.. 就这样.. 我在沙巴的第二天也正式来到了尾声..

Have a great chatting session again during the night.. with hot cup mee.. it felt so great to have hot cup mee in such cold weather.. it is only 17 celcius degree during the night.. this remind me of you again.. you really freak me out that time.. i was thinking to whether do i need to send you down hill to consult doctor.. hehe.. and here goes my second day for my Sabah trip..

~待续.. 更多照片将上传在第三天.. to be continue in day 3.. more photos upcoming in day 3..

Sunday, April 13, 2014

Beautiful Kota Kinabalu - Day 1

这次我决定把我沙巴亚庇之旅分成四个部分来写.. 分别是第一天.. 第二天.. 第三天.. 和后记.. 嘻嘻.. 话不多说.. 就开始讲述我这第一天的旅途..

For this special trip to Kota Kinabalu, Sabah.. i decided to divide them into four parts of my post.. which are day 1, day 2, day 3 and postscript.. hehe.. so shall we start with day 1 story?

这是我有生以来第一次独自去旅行.. 相信很多人都觉得一切一切都要准备充足.. 策划.. 但我发现这些有些都是多余的.. 因为我连住宿都没安排.. 哈哈.. 很多事都是去到了才决定的.. 相信除了飞机票提早三个星期买以外和上网看看一些资料外.. 其他的都是随性的..

this is my very first solo trip in my life.. so i guess a lot of you might think that we have to be well prepare with everything, with a proper schedule and plan.. but for me.. all these are just unnecessary.. because i don't even have proper booking on accommodation and plan.. all these are being decided promptly or on the spot.. except for flight ticket which I have bought 3 weeks earlier.. all others are just being decided promptly..

So.. 也因为没有一个完整的plan.. 第一天的我差点觉得自己去不成了.. 哈哈.. 十一点的飞机.. 十点半boarding.. 所以一大清早6点就起床了.. 但是却又赖床.. 赖赖一下张开眼看已经是6点半了!! 原本想7点到达 lrt station.. 7点半到达KL Sentral.. 以便搭能搭之前买飞机票时一起买的skybus.. 由于skybus的网站说国内航班最迟要在Boarding time的三小时前搭skybus.. 所以我最迟8点必须搭到达KL Sentral搭skybus去LCCT.. 但现在被我这样赖床一搞.. 我大概7点多才下到去.. 最惨的是还要等大概20分钟才搭到巴士去lrt station.. 到lrt 已经7点半了.. 等lrt和到达KL Sentral又花费了大概半小时多.. 到达KL Sentral时已经是8点了.. 到达后要上skybus时那里的负责人向我要itinerary pass.. 以证明我有买巴士票.. 我的天啊.. 我只带boarding pass罢了.. 那想到需要itinerary pass呢? 过后那人便叫我去Air Asia的counter拿stamp证明我有买.. 我去了.. 问了柜台.. 才知道Air Asia的counter 9点才开.. 想当场买一张新的票.. 但那人却说不行.. 一定要在counter买.. 我当时心想惨了.. 这回可能miss flight了.. 或许不该去了吧.. 哈哈.. 突然有点临阵退缩的感觉.. 但.. 我不可以让自己退缩.. 看了看后.. 决定博一搏.. 买了KLIA Transit的票.. 希望.. 还赶的上飞机..

So.. because of lack of a proper plan.. i almost missed my flight.. haha.. the flight is scheduled at 11:00 am with boarding time on 10:30am.. so waking up in 6:00am should be fine for me.. but because of overslept.. i only managed to wake up in 6:30am! after quick preparation i only managed to left my house and heading to the lrt station at 7 something.. waiting for the bus for 20 minutes.. and finally i reached KL Sentral at around 8:00am.. it is kind of late as i have bought skybus ticket along with my flight ticket and referring to skybus's website, we should board the bus at KL Sentral 3 hours before the flight.. so i was kind of late for that.. while panicking.. finally i found the bus is yet to depart.. while boarding.. the staff in charged ask for the ticket or itinerary.. but.. i only printed out my boarding pass and did not print the stupid itinerary.. so.. he advised me to refer to Air Asia counter to get the itinerary printed as prove of purchase.. when i was there in Air Asia counter.. i found out that they only open at 9:00am!! so how the heck am i gonna print out my itinerary? and we can't re-purchase the ticket for skybus there.. after all these i have an urge that may be all these meant i shouldn't have take this flight.. but i told myself i have to try no matter what.. as so.. i went to the KLIA transit counter and bought myself a KLIA transit to LCCT with hope..

8点半.. KLIA Transit的火车才到.. 由于之后还要从Salak Tinggi转bus才能去到LCCT.. 所以一直担心不懂几点才能到LCCT.. 若真的因为睡迟了而赶不上飞机.. 说出来很丢脸吧.. 呵呵.. 但也因为马航的事让我觉得或许赶不上也是一件好事.. 或许就是暗示说我不该搭那班班机.. 赶不上就回家继续睡觉.. 哈哈.. 当时的心情.. 还真的是五味陈杂呀.. 但无论如何.. 我在大概9:30时到达了LCCT.. 看来KLIA Transit也还蛮快的吗.. 火车加巴士的路途大概只用了一个小时.. 赶紧过了security check.. 我终于在9点40分到达了候机室.. 还来的及上飞机.. 看来.. 若不是繁忙时段.. 根本就不需要3个小时前准备.. 哈哈.. 有了这次经验.. 相信下回不会再那么杞人忧天了..

Finally.. the KLIA Transit reached at around 8:30am.. the train will stopped at Salak Tinggi Station and we have to take bus from Salak Tinggi to LCCT.. luckily.. i still managed to reach LCCT at 9:30am.. it seems like KLIA transit only took around one hour to reach LCCT from KL sentral.. after the security check.. i finally reached at departure hall at 9:40am.. and it was like finally! haha.. now i knew it doesn't necessary to depart from home so early.. as i do still have plenty of time to wait at the departure hall.. hmm.. i believe with this experience.. it would help a lot! as previously i used to take cab to airport on working purpose..

上了飞机.. 2个半小时的旅途里我大概有4分之3的时间在睡觉吧.. 认识我的人都知道我旅行无论是坐车或飞机.. 我都是不会睡的.. 而这次竟然睡了.. 看来.. 我真的很累了.. 嘻嘻.. 大概在下午1点40分就到达了亚庇机场.. 买了张去城市的巴士票.. 终于真正开始了我的亚庇之旅.. 去亚庇城市的巴士一个小时有一趟.. RM5罢了.. 很便宜.. 若要搭德士去最少都要RM30.. 而且巴士是在Terminal 2直接载送.. 而不是像之前听的要走一段路才有巴士.. 在柜台处拿了一张亚庇市区的地图后边踏上了巴士..

The flight took 2 and half hour to reach at Kota Kinabalu International Airport (KKIA) and i think i was sleeping for 3/4 of the journey.. this is rare because i don't usually sleep during travelling.. i guess i am really tired at this time.. hehe.. so i reached KKIA at aroung 1:40pm.. bought myself a bus ticket to KK Town.. it cost me only RM5.. boarding just in front of the entrance of KKIA Terminal 2.. felt grateful as previously I heard there is no bus heading to KK town and we need to take a cab which cost me at least RM30..

从巴士上拍摄的亚庇机场入口.. KKIA Terminal 2 entrance taken from bus..

到了市区后第一件事肯定就是找今晚的住宿先咯.. 由于之前已经有survey了几间不错的酒店.. 加上现在有地图在手.. 问了住宿费用.. ok后便check in了.. 一切都很顺利.. check in后休息了一下.. 已经是三点多了.. 便开始了我的第一站.. 解决午餐.. =.= 是的.. 由于忙忙碌碌.. 我连早午餐都还没吃呢.. 所以就去到了Gaya Street.. 点了一碗生肉面.. 由于太饿了.. 我没拍到照片.. 呵呵.. 但老实说在亚庇吃并不便宜哦.. 一碗生肉面叫价RM6.. 和KL的价钱差不多.. 生肉面呢.. 吃起来有点像在KL的猪肉粉.. 就是猪肉.. 肠.. 肉丸等等的.. 呵呵.. 但还是蛮好吃的..

so.. the first thing i did in KK Town is find my accommodation for the night! i have survey and shortlisted a few hotel before i came.. so with the help of a town map obtained in the KKIA Airport.. i managed to locate one of them easily.. asked about the room rate.. within my budget and check in! it was like finally for me.. haha.. took a short break and it was already 3 something in the afternoon.. so i started with my first stop.. which is settle my lunch! due to rushing.. i have yet to have my breakfast and lunch even though it is 3pm now.. so heading to Gaya Street.. find a place which serve "Sang Yok Mee".. a local noodles with variety parts of pork including minced pork.. pork intestine.. meatball.. and etc.. the price is RM6.00 which for me is consider comparable to price in KL even though this is just a small town.. overall.. the noodle was good.. or may be it is just im too hungry? haha.. no photo as im really hungry at that time.. hehe..

填饱肚子后就真正开始了我的第一站观光之旅.. 第一站就去了离Gaya Street不远的Jalan Tun Fuad Stephen走.. 这里的特色就是海边了! 话不多说.. 让照片说话吧..

After my lunch i started my loitering tour in Kota Kinabalu town.. so i guess i will just let photo to describe places i went.. haha..

在Jalan Tun Fuad Stephan的海边..  Seaside at Jalan Tun Fuad Stephan

港口的view.. view of the port..



从海边看亚庇城市.. KK town view from the seaside..

海豚! Dolphin!

Suria Sabah..

从亚庇出海的港口.. Jesselton Point.. 

停泊在港口的船.. boats moored at the port..

前往Labuan的船.. 很霸气的名字: 海王号.. Boat to Labuan..





入口处.. entrance..

英国风的电话亭.. English style's public phone

售卖各式各样小食与饮料的店面.. shops that sell assorted snacks and drinks..

5:30pm.. 天色开始暗了.. the sky getting darker.. even it is just 5:30pm..

另一个景色.. another view..



港口边售卖着各式各样的海产和小吃.. Varieties of seafood and snacks sold beside the port..

我发现这里大多数熟食都是烧烤的.. i noticed that majority of the cooked foods here are barbecued!





海葡萄!! 生吃!! Seaweed!! which you can eat directly!!




夕阳无限好.. 只是近黄昏.. beautiful sunset view!!

过后看见三个中国游客和当地售卖海产的档主用着彼此都听不懂的语言询问价钱时.. 八卦的我就临时当起了翻译员来.. 就这样认识了她们.. 过后便聊聊大家在亚庇的经历.. 原来她们也是背包旅行来这里.. 而且还是第一次出国旅行.. 哇.. 我还蛮佩服的.. 因为三个女生第一次出国就到语言不通的国家来.. 还是背包旅行.. 蛮厉害的嘛.. 一起吃了一餐晚餐后便分道扬镳了.. 明天她们将前往美人鱼岛.. 而我将会到Kundasang去.. 所以彼此祝福大家旅途愉快后边分离了.. 过后我才想起我们没有交换联络.. 或许这就是独自旅行的其中一个乐趣.. 就是接受人来人往.. 在旅途短暂的认识..

Met three China's tourist here bargaining with the Filipino stall owner using the language which i believe both of them also don't understand.. so due to my "kindness".. i decided to become their translator and help them solve the problem.. and knew them because of that! haha.. after a short chat with them.. i was quite impressed that they were also backpacking here as this is the first time they having their oversea travelling.. it was really something as three of them are ladies and travelling to an oversea place which differential in language might become one of their travelling barrier.. we have a simple dinner together and farewell after the dinner.. after that only i remembered we did not exchange contact.. but i guess that it is the nature of backpacking.. people came and people go in the journey.. learned and adept this situation as i am sure this will definitely happen again in my journey.. so good luck to you all! and hope you all enjoy this trip in Malaysia!

在这里享受杯咖啡.. 暂时过着慢活的日子.. 嗯.. 是不错的.. 哈哈.. enjoying a cup of coffee here without need to worry about anything else.. that's what we called life!

就这样.. 我在亚庇的第一天也到了尾声.. and that ends my first day in KK..

~ 待续.. to be continued..


Thursday, April 10, 2014

愿你一路好走

今天突然收到妈妈的一通电话.. 电话的另一头妈妈用担心的语气对我说妹妹的朋友因为压力而选择自己了解的生命.. 妈妈千叮万嘱我一定要看好妹妹.. 尤其是现在处于考试时期.. 压力是肯定会有的..

回到来后和妹妹聊了一下.. 她虽然伤心但庆幸这件事对她并没有什么影响.. 我觉得她还是很坚强的.. 也强调了自己若真的应付不来最多也是不读罢了.. 没必要放弃自己的生命.. 看来是妈妈多虑了..

看到东方日报上的新闻.. 找回之前在我妹妹毕业典礼时我拍的照片.. 我看到了那个男生.. 原来当时他也我拍的照片中.. 也算是和我有一面之缘.. 看着当时大家脸上的笑容.. 万万没想到五个月后的你竟然选择以这样的方式来结束自己的生命..


老实说我自己也有过轻生的念头.. 当时的压力真的很大.. 很多事情都不如自己想象中的那么好.. 甚至可以用坏来形容.. 但也庆幸当时的我也很理智.. 并没有将这个念头转为实际的行动.. 不然你也不会看到我继续在这里写部落..

生命没有第二次.. 你放弃的生命.. 往往是很多垂死的人想要的生命.. 伤害自己前.. 请想想身边爱你的人.. 生命.. 没了就是没了..

最后.. 想说在面子书上发表一些鄙视的言论的人.. 虽然这种行为确实不可鼓励.. 但你们的鄙视的言论对死者的父母和亲友来说是二度伤害.. 在发表这些言论前请把自己放在他人的角度看看.. 将心比心..

翃政

Friday, April 4, 2014

抉择

有时我在想.. 我这一生有多少个决定必须抉择呢? 从每天日常生活中的午餐要吃些什么.. 到事业上的某些决定.. 我这一天又做了多少决定?

近来不知为何.. 生活上突然多了好多好多的选择.. 而且还是那种一但决定了对我影响会很深的抉择.. 而此时的我.. 却"选择"了在选择中徘徊.. 迟迟都不肯爽快的做决定..

人就是那么的奇怪.. 我们常常在怨没有选择.. 被逼要接受这个接受那个.. 没有选择的余地.. 但此时的我正好相反.. 选择太多.. 反而不知该怎么做.. 很想衡量每个决定的利与弊.. 从中选择一个自己觉得肯定不会后悔的决定.. 但有可能吗? 呵呵..

犹柔寡段一直以来都是我的弱点.. 也是我长期以来都想克服的弱点.. 此时还真的希望自己没有选择.. 只能被逼接受.. 这样一来以后即使要怨.. 也不会怨自己为何当初做出这么蠢的决定..

想了想.. 有时候还真的怀念以前有个肯听我说话的人.. 帮我分析.. 和给我意见的那个人.. 最重要的是.. 她不会抱怨我的臭脾气.. 即使生气了也是想要撒撒娇.. 偶尔还会扮可爱逗我的她.. 但唯一让我感叹的是那时候的我并没有能力给她我最好的.. 毕竟经济主权不在自己的身上.. 很多事都要靠家里.. 与现在相比.. 真的觉得自己亏欠了她..

好啦.. 我知道自己写着写着离题了.. 但问题天天都多.. 所以又是时候不理问题睡觉了.. 希望到时一切都能迎刃而解.. 加油!

p.s. 相隔了那么久.. 我又突然想你了.. 就像五月天的那首"突然好想你".. 哈哈.. 猜你也睡了吧.. 那就晚安咯..

翃政